What does man want?? All of us will agree that the answer to my question is happiness.Everybody is doing whatever he is doing, for happiness.
I am writing this now because i feel that at this moment i have suddenly discovered something that will help me to be happy.....often.What i have realized just now is that we can learn to be happy,i.e, we can actually train ourselves to be happy.
All of us want to be good human beings, isn't it?...and here in lies the solution....just be good...its very simple(i can explain what i mean).We just need to be completely good...we cannot be half good because half good is not good enough.You may ask what is it that i mean when i say be good.What i mean is be happy at others happiness.
If we can become happy when we see others doing what they like or, doing what they want, then be sure that we will always be happy.Be a little selfish,i.e, be happy at others happiness knowing that this in turn will lead YOU to be happy....there is absolutely no harm in that.
What i want to emphasize on is that if we are satisfied to see others achieve their goals, if we can derive pleasure when something good happens to someone else, then my friend we have achieved everything that we always desired for....because then we have happiness....
This in no way means that we neglect ourselves.This does not imply that we opt out of a competition to let others win.We can always compete against our friends to win...but we should always remain honest with others, with our ownself.If I win, i will always be happy as my hard work has bore fruits but if my friend wins, then also i should be happy as my friend has won.
I will further write on this as i realize anything more on this....let us all be happy!!!
